Preparing Families with Children
Children cope with emergencies far better when they already know what will happen. Preparing them is not about frightening them. It is about giving them a role, a plan and adults who stay calm. Do it together, a little at a time, like learning to cross the street.
1. Talk about it the right way
- Use simple, honest words for their age. "Sometimes the power goes out for a long time. This is what our family does."
- Focus on what you will do, not on what could go wrong.
- Let them ask questions. Answer briefly and truthfully.
- Limit their exposure to frightening news, especially images on repeat.
2. Include them in the plan
- Teach them how and when to call 112 (or 911 in the US and Canada).
- Help them learn by heart their full name, address and at least one parent's phone number.
- Show them both meeting points and walk there together.
- Give them a contact card for their school bag.
- Give each child a job: packing their own bag, checking the flashlights, looking after the pet.
Build the whole plan with our Make a Plan guide.
3. Know the school and childcare plan
- Ask how the school will alert parents and where children go if the building is evacuated.
- Check who is authorised to pick up your child, and keep that list up to date.
- Agree what your child should do if you cannot reach them for several hours.
4. Add children's needs to your kits
- Baby formula, bottles, nappies and wipes for at least 7 days.
- Children's medicines and a fever thermometer.
- Snacks they already like. A crisis is not the time to try new food.
- A change of clothes and warm layers in the current size. Check every 6 months.
- A comfort item, books, cards or a small game that works without power.
- A recent photo of each child, in case you are separated.
Calculate quantities with the kit calculator, then pack the go-bag and the home kit.
5. During and after a crisis
- Stay calm. Children read your face before your words.
- Keep routines when you can: meals, bedtime, a story.
- Tell them what is happening and what comes next, in short sentences.
- Afterwards, watch for changes in sleep, appetite or behaviour. Most children recover with time and attention. Ask a doctor or school nurse for help if changes last.
Read more in Mental Resilience.
Sources
Educational material. Always follow instructions from your local authorities. Last reviewed: November 2026.